As we all know, lube traditionally comes with a lot of shame and stigma (which we are determined to change) and because of that people do not feel confident in speaking up and asking questions. One of the most common questions we get is- ok so how am I supposed to use this?
So here is a basic guide on how to properly use lube:
1. Application
Before Sex: Squeeze a small amount of Personal Fav onto your fingers (about a dime-sized amount to start) and rub it onto the desired area (vagina, penis, anus, or sex toys). Add more if needed. Don’t be afraid to use a generous amount, especially if you’re engaging in longer sessions or anal sex.
During Sex: You can reapply as needed if things start to feel dry or if friction increases. Our bottles are great for this because they are pump bottles, easier to use in the moment and less mess!
2. Using with condoms
- External (Male) Condoms: Apply a small amount of our water-based, Whet, to the outside of the condom to reduce friction. Make sure not to use too much inside the condom, as this can cause it to slip off.
- Internal (Female) Condoms: Add a little lube to both the inside and outside of the condom before insertion for smoother use.
3. For Anal Play
- The anus doesn’t naturally produce lubrication, so a lot of lube is necessary for anal sex or anal play with toys. Our oil-based, Pique, is typically preferred for anal use because it is thicker and can last longer for this type of play.
4. For Sex Toys
- Both of our formulas, Pique & Whet, are toy safe! Apply the formula of your choice directly to the sex toy and the body part you’ll be using it with. If using silicone toys, never use a silicone based lube, it will damage your expensive, beautiful toys!
5. After Use
- Clean Up: Water-based lubes, like Whet, are easy to wash off with soap and water. Silicone-based lubes may need more effort to clean from the skin, as they are more resistant to water. Be sure to clean any toys, bodies, or surfaces as well with our wipes, Play!
Additional Tips:
- Experiment: Everyone’s body is different, so experiment with different lubes to find which one feels best for you.
- Store Properly: Keep lube in a cool, dry place and most formulas, including ours, have a 2 year shelf life.
Adding Personal Fav into the mix is a simple, fun, and effective way to make sexual activity more comfortable and pleasurable for all involved. ALWAYS read the ingredients! We are proudly plant-based, made with the cleanest ingredients and we will never compromise on that!